Online rishta platforms have made it easier than ever to find marriage proposals across Pakistan and overseas. But with this convenience comes risk — fake profiles, scammers, and privacy concerns. This guide helps families stay safe while using online rishta services.
How Common Are Fake Profiles on Rishta Websites?
According to industry estimates, up to 30-40% of profiles on unverified matrimonial websites may be fake or misleading. These include people using stolen photos, inflating their education or income, hiding previous marriages, or creating profiles for scam purposes. This is why platforms with manual verification — like Select Proposal — are crucial.
Red Flags to Watch For
Be cautious if you notice any of these warning signs:
- No phone verification — the platform doesn't verify phone numbers
- Too-perfect profile — model-like photos, extremely high income, and no flaws
- Avoids video calls — refuses to do a video call with family members
- Rushes the process — pressures for quick nikah without proper family meetings
- Asks for money — any request for financial help before marriage is a scam
- Inconsistent details — story changes across conversations
- No family involvement — claims family is "abroad" or "not available"
How to Verify a Rishta Proposal Online
- Reverse image search — upload their profile photo to Google Images to check if it appears elsewhere
- Social media check — look for their Facebook, LinkedIn, or Instagram. No social media presence at all is suspicious.
- Phone call with family — insist on speaking with their parents or siblings
- Video call — a basic video call confirms they look like their photos
- Mutual contacts — ask around in their city. Pakistan is a connected society — someone always knows someone.
- Visit in person — before finalizing, visit their home. This is traditional and essential.
"O you who believe! If a wicked person comes to you with any news, verify it, lest you should harm people in ignorance." — Surah Al-Hujurat (49:6)
Why Select Proposal Is Safer
Select Proposal, a Pakistani Islamic matrimonial platform, takes verification seriously:
- Every profile is manually reviewed before going live
- Phone numbers are verified — no anonymous accounts
- Fake accounts are actively removed — our team monitors for suspicious activity
- Contact info is hidden — your phone number is only visible when you choose to share
- Free to browse — you can review profiles before committing to any plan
Privacy Tips for Families
- Don't share CNIC or passport details with anyone online
- Use the platform's messaging system instead of sharing personal WhatsApp immediately
- Don't send personal photos outside the platform until you've verified the other family
- Keep your rishta search private — only discuss with close family
Search Safely — Register on a Verified Platform
Register free on Select Proposal and browse verified profiles from Lahore, Karachi, Islamabad, Abbottabad, Hyderabad, and 30+ other cities across Pakistan. Your safety is our priority.